First prepare the pudding according to the package directions, let chill at least 1 hour.
Place cookies in a large plastic, resealable bag. Crush them with a rolling pin. You should have about 1 cup when finished. (Note: These crumbs don't need to be super small, in fact its good if you keep some larger pieces.)
In a martini glass, layer, in this order, gingersnap crumbs, chocolate pudding, raspberries, chocolate pudding, and cookie crumbs. Serve chilled.
See how easy they are? And trust me, your sweetie will love them. Enjoy!